by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 9, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Sex is the Gold Standard of a well-oiled, functioning, happy, content marriage. Or it should be. And so, for that reason, everyone wants it. It feels wonderful when it feels wonderful. But when it doesn’t….. It’s two strangers trying to connect and...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 5, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
You feel isolated, misunderstood. You’re afraid to say something and afraid not to say something. You wonder why you’re married if you have to sit all alone in your empty house. You feel so much worse being married and alone than people who are alone....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 3, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
When your spouse finally learns that you’ve caught him or her cheating – in one way or another – what’s the usual reaction? They get defensive. They cover it up. They minimize it. And they’re not the ones reading this post. You are. The...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 29, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Finally, your spouse got it. He or she realized it was mean to be mean. And they apologized. From the heart. But something strange has happened. You’re doing the same thing back. Saying nasty things. Hitting below the belt. And they’re suffering. Now...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 27, 2011 | Mental Health
I believe in Marriage Counseling. Well, of course: That’s why I do it! But the cynics among you might think, “Yeah, well, she gets paid after all.” Now that’s a good point. I do get paid, as you do for your work. But honestly, if you did your work, whether it was...
