by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 25, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
That weird feeling you get – maybe it’s in the pit of your stomach, or maybe it’s like a choking in your throat, or a suffocating feeling like you can’t breathe – but it’s a feeling that something just went wrong. Really wrong. Yet, you can’t pinpoint it. You try....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 23, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
With all the therapy that Cheryl has already had, you would think that the rejection of her pot luck offers would be no big deal, but that was not the case. Why? Why is it that small things turn into big things? And most important, how do we stop doing that to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 18, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
“What? You’re saying because I’m anxious, I’m abusive?” “Are you kidding?” Cindy asked me, curling a tissue in her hand. “You’re blaming me for being anxious when my kids are terrible?” Of course, I didn’t actually say anything. These are just the thoughts going...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 16, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
I’m now releasing #16 of the Marriage Situations Playlist, Perfectionism’s Fatal Attraction. See, you thought, maybe, that being a perfectionist is tough because you have to be perfect? Nah, that’s not at all the worst part. Watch the video to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 11, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
No, it’s not “Tell them” – because they don’t listen. And no, it’s not “Divorce them” because guess what? – if you’re divorced they sure as heck won’t be meeting your needs. AND research shows that even if you re-marry, you will still feel resentful of the first...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 12, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Cheryl’s fear of abandonment may be keeping her in an abusive marriage unless she can learn how to tell if he is really changing or just putting on a good show. Find out the specifics she learns in order to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 7, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Someone in my Facebook group asked, “How come people will say they have no issues and their childhood was great, yet they create marital problems that do not exist?” Ha! Funny, right? That is classic denial. Of COURSE they had a problemmatic childhood. No, it was not...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 5, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Self-sabotage is a part, but more importantly, it’s a protector. Well, how can it protect by sabotaging? Watch the video to find out how it’s trying to protect and how to outsmart...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 28, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
It is SOOO frustrating. There you are, helpless, while you watch someone you love and care about go down the rathole. And there is nothing, absolutely nothing, you can do. Or at least, that is what you were thinking. But there is actually one thing. We’re talking...
