Larry’s Unexpected Apology and Cheryl’s Tears (Situation #10)
Larry's apology at the end of an all-night drive leaves Cheryl in tears of anger - not happiness - and Larry feeling defensive and slipping out of that wonderful Self-energy he acquired during the night. Welcome to reality. Nevertheless, Larry has turned a corner and...
How Could Depression Or Anxiety Be Abusive?
It’s interesting how certain diagnoses like narcissism or the “personality disorders” can automatically give a person the label of abuser…. ….while others leave them alone. You would think that we ought to leave alone someone who is suffering, like a person who is...
Larry Confronts His Deceased Father
Larry is tired of escaping. He goes into a bar and walks right out. Instead, he confronts HIMSELF. Driving all night, he has new realizations and a glimpse of the person he really always was underneath the agendas put on him by his father. Please watch this new...
Reviewing “Why Narcissists Hate Sick People”
-A youtube video by Dr Ramani Durvasula Dr Durvasula is not like the guy I reviewed last week. She is a psychologist. She means well. She’s trying to help people. So what’s wrong with her youtube videos? What’s wrong with her practice? Everything. She’s taking the...
Is Your Partner A Narcissist – Take This Test
Living with someone who hurts you is awful. Why are they doing that? Do they get pleasure out of it? Do they have a “need” for power and control? Or is the person who is hurting you motivated by different reasons? What could they be? And why should you care? You need...
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The Real Reason Nothing’s Happening In The Bedroom (Situation #7)
Remember Molly, from Marriage Situation #1? She was the people pleaser. It seemed at first that Tom, her husband, and she, got along just fine. But we didn't look too closely back then. Now, we're going to focus on Tom, her husband. Let's just say nothing's happening...
Scared People Cheat; Brave People Confront
What, DrDeb? People who cheat are scared? Are you kidding? It takes guts to cheat! Cheating means going after what you want! Nice rationalizing, friend! Actually, you’ll hear the opposite in our Live Thursday at 1 PM Eastern time. You’ll find out what really takes...
What’s Emotional Healing Anyway? – Cheryl Is Tested (Situation #6)
Please watch my newest installment of the Marriage Situations playlist. It is called, What's Emotional Healing Anyway? - Cheryl Is Tested (Situation #6) Cheryl's fear of abandonment has kept her in an abusive marriage. But she learns to comfort her frightened child...
Honor Your Anger
“Huh, DrDeb?” some readers must be thinking. And then probably other readers are thinking, “Yessss! Told ya my anger is good!” See, your anger – whether you love having it or hate it – is part of you. We’re all born with it. Think of that red-faced newborn, screaming....