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ANNOUNCEMENT! Now available for people on a tight time frame: I've got 55 Youtube SHORTS! Check them out https://youtube.com/@DrDebEmpowers/shorts
The Real Reason Nothing’s Happening In The Bedroom (Situation #7)
Remember Molly, from Marriage Situation #1? She was the people pleaser. It seemed at first that Tom, her husband, and she, got along just fine. But we didn't look too closely back then. Now, we're going to focus on Tom, her husband. Let's just say nothing's happening...
Scared People Cheat; Brave People Confront
What, DrDeb? People who cheat are scared? Are you kidding? It takes guts to cheat! Cheating means going after what you want! Nice rationalizing, friend! Actually, you’ll hear the opposite in our Live Thursday at 1 PM Eastern time. You’ll find out what really takes...
What’s Emotional Healing Anyway? – Cheryl Is Tested (Situation #6)
Please watch my newest installment of the Marriage Situations playlist. It is called, What's Emotional Healing Anyway? - Cheryl Is Tested (Situation #6) Cheryl's fear of abandonment has kept her in an abusive marriage. But she learns to comfort her frightened child...
Honor Your Anger
“Huh, DrDeb?” some readers must be thinking. And then probably other readers are thinking, “Yessss! Told ya my anger is good!” See, your anger – whether you love having it or hate it – is part of you. We’re all born with it. Think of that red-faced newborn, screaming....
Can I Ever Get Past Shame?
Jackie was silent for some time. The therapist had been gently looking to find out how she felt about herself. But the words choked in the back of Jackie’s throat. All she felt was hot, burning shame. Would she ever feel human again? The short answer is “Yes.” Find...
Invitation To Work With Me
My “Love Yourself Love Your Marriage Individual Learning + Group Coaching” offer is for couples who want to stay married but who have been struggling with communication breakdowns, disconnect, or discord. They have tried weekend programs and/or marriage counseling and...
How Abusers Really Feel Will Surprise You (Marriage Situation #5)
Understanding the person who doesn't meet our needs is the most important part of self care! That is how to get those very needs met. In this video, we dig deeper into why Larry is not making progress and why that is okay - for now....
How Do We Make Peace In A Sick World?
One way to feel is, “My God, if the governments of this world can’t figure it out, how are we individuals supposed to?” But I’m proposing the opposite: “Because the governments are made up of us, the people, then the solutions have to start with us.” And what has this...
2 Ways You Can Find Your Voice
“Well, what do you want, Monica?” the therapist patiently asked his new client. Monica was baffled. She didn’t even know. Years of being beaten down, first by a parent who always knew better than anybody else, and then by a husband who shared some of those...