Here are 4 categories of people running away from themselves: People addicted to one thing or another – alcohol, drugs, gambling, porn, shopping, working exceptionally long hours, explosive anger/rages, cutting, purging, lying, or cheating. Schizophrenics,...
This is for you. Yes, for you if you think that you’re fine and the only person that needs help from me with the marriage is your spouse. It’s true, your spouse has lied/cheated/neglected/been addicted/been mean…. So you’re HALF right. Yes,...
“I’m so scared. I feel like I just got thrown off a cliff. I’m in free-fall and I do not know if I will land at all or be crushed to death when I do. This is crazy. Topsy-turvy. OMG.” Okay. I get it. Your world has turned upside down. Breathe....
You feel isolated, misunderstood. You’re afraid to say something and afraid not to say something. You wonder why you’re married if you have to sit all alone in your empty house. You feel so much worse being married and alone than people who are alone....
When your spouse finally learns that you’ve caught him or her cheating – in one way or another – what’s the usual reaction? They get defensive. They cover it up. They minimize it. And they’re not the ones reading this post. You are. The...
Finally, your spouse got it. He or she realized it was mean to be mean. And they apologized. From the heart. But something strange has happened. You’re doing the same thing back. Saying nasty things. Hitting below the belt. And they’re suffering. Now...
