by DrDeb Hirschhorn | May 14, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I am a great baker. That is, I like to bake: mouth-watering chocolate chip cookies, apple cake, cheese cakes, and lots more. That said, I’m not an expert. It’s just my fun thing. Especially since I love eating…. But one of the things I noticed is that if...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 30, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Michael was the culprit in this relationship with his wife, Jeanette, only he didn’t know it. As is often the case with abusive people, he blamed Jeanette for not “understanding” him. But today, as this couple speaks with me, Michael claims,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 23, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I thought I’d tell you a bit about me and about where I can see *you* going…. I have a Ph.D. But what I am most proud of is my children and grandchildren. They all came out well! (and cute!) I’ve got four children; three are married with kids and...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 19, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
If you saw my Masterclass (https://drdeb.com/LoveYourselfLoveYourMarriage) then you know why reaching out to help people means so much to me, why I will probably still be doing this work when I’m 102. Now, the next question is: Can I help YOU? I help married...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 12, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“Of course I know that people aren’t supposed to lose it,” Tammy said defensively. “I’m not stupid. I didn’t just get born yesterday. I know how to act. In fact,” she went on with an air of superiority about her,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 3, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I was reading Steven Stosny the other day and he said something profound. He has been working for decades on helping people who’ve been not merely angry, but sometimes enraged, to feel compassion. This is no easy matter because highly angry people often...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 16, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“I’m so scared. I feel like I just got thrown off a cliff. I’m in free-fall and I do not know if I will land at all or be crushed to death when I do. This is crazy. Topsy-turvy. OMG.” Okay. I get it. Your world has turned upside down. Breathe....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 12, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I always have this mental picture when I hear that someone went to “anger management” – a picture of someone gritting their teeth, panting, and trying their hardest to “control” themselves from bursting out in a fit of rage. Fingernails...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 27, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I was reading Steven Stosny the other day and he said something profound. He has been working for decades on helping people who’ve been not merely angry, but sometimes enraged, to feel compassion. This is no easy matter because highly angry people often...
