Ooooo how frustrating. You've tried everything. Everything. And nothing works. They will not come to the table.  You know the one about bringing the horse to water but you can't make it drink? Well, your horse doesn't even come to the water. You've explained....

At last you're free!  Free from arguments. Free from wondering where he/she is. Free from the cold shoulder. Free from the false accusations. Free from the sarcasm. Free from the neglect. Find out why that feeling of relief lasts less than a nanosecond and is replaced...

It is so frustrating.  You are miserable. You know they are miserable. But instead of doing something about it, they just avoid discussing the matter. Or they agree to go to counseling but they don't actually make the call. Or they "can't make it" on the selected...

When you go to counseling, there's no endpoint. There's a general, vague sense of "Am I getting better?" "or happier?" Or "Are we now getting along?" But unlike, say, taking a course to become something like a lawyer or a doctor or a CPA, there are no milestones, no...

Well, I'm doing it. I've talked about IFS (and if you don't know what that is, just type IFS in the comments). I've talked about the need for self-calming techniques such as breathing, meditation, mindfulness, and even yoga. I've talked about the importance of...

"Okay, thanks, DrDeb," he dismissed me. "We'll have to think about it." The English translation of that is, "Wow, it's scary to spend that much money." (That's also true, by the way, when you buy a house or a car - even if you want it. But the difference is you go...

If you love yourself, then your life has intense value. If you were held kidnapped, what would ppl pay to get you back? What do YOU think you're worth? What, exactly, does that mean when it comes down to everyday life? This Livestream will be different from the...

One day the thought occurred to me as one of my clients, Todd, was raving about the program -- that I should interview him on a livestream. Well, that SCARED the bejeepers out of me because as a therapist, I've always protected clients' identities, even when they...

Do you want to see my answer for "we don't communicate" and "when we try to communicate, we have very different styles and it just doesn't work"? Because tonight at 9PM Eastern time I'm going to show you exactly why the idea of "teaching communication skills" never...

Well, let's ask another question. Why did this group need to be named "Love Yourself" before the "Love Your Marriage?" If you think, well, that's kind of a nice thing, you're way off base. It's a necessity, not a "nice thing to have." And if you disagree with me - if...