by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 29, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
This is the last video in our playlist, We Have The Secret To Healing Cr#### Marriages and it sums up some of the top characteristics of your Empowerment. It turns out that everything that makes you look vulnerable makes you look – and feel and be –...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 27, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
“Can’t you be nicer?” Maddy asked, one eyebrow furrowed and one raised as if she really were asking a question. Steve knew she was not really asking a question at all. He knew that she was passing judgment on him – as usual. There was this familiar hollow pit in the...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 22, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
Episode 10 of our playlist is up! Not only do you need to be a giver if you want the Personal Power of your Self Energy handling things in your marriage – but so does your partner. Learn exactly what that is, and isn’t. Watch the entire playlist, We Have...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 16, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
A very young couple reached out to me about 10 years ago. They had a therapist who referred them to me because she didn’t do couples work. At that time, I didn’t know IFS (Internal Family Systems) and we Marriage & Family Therapists were trained not to have to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 14, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
Stop putting yourself down. You DO have wisdom. You DO have intuition. And in this video, I will show you how to discover yours. It’s not even hidden so deeply. The problem is the strenght of all your internal nay-sayers. Those need convincing and you will see...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 13, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
“With all due respect, DrDeb,” he started out, [Uh-oh, it’s trouble when they start out that way.] “I’ve known my wife for 25 years and I know what I’m talking about.” Robert was trying to convince me that his wife was stupid. As a Marriage & Family Therapist, I...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 9, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships, Mental Health
“Caroline did not mean to insult you!” Nancy said about their daughter. “I know this to be true because she told me herself. She’s a good girl, the best!” “Yeah, well, why didn’t she apologize then?” William demanded. “You wouldn’t speak to her! How could she...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 8, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
Getting Clarity in muddy waters is not easy. But to gain the power of Self Engery, you need that clarity. How do you get it? The first step is to not shy away from “trying” things that may seem difficult or out of reach because if you fail, you’re in...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 6, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships, Mental Health
“I know I can stand up for myself. I know exactly what to say. I’ve practiced it in front of the mirror a thousand times!” Carrie said. “But when it comes to actually doing it, something stops me,” she added, sighing. In this made-up example, I’m the therapist,...
