by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 9, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“We just can’t communicate,” Alice complained. Victor was staring at a spot on the ceiling. He was not comfortable at all. And the worst part of this scene is that Terra, the therapist, will not be able to help. The reason? Although Alice thinks the...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 6, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
How a Young Couple Fell Back In Love Even With Violent, Rejecting, Unsupportive, and Dismissive Parents Leslie and Gregory were a young couple who came to me in despair. Not only did they offer up the usual “we can’t communicate” but there was...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 2, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Marriage is either an opportunity or a bludgeon, beating to death everything that is you: When it’s an opportunity, there’s a give and take that is so awesome, it’s breathtaking. Both people get to thrive and grow and become who they were...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 30, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Michael was the culprit in this relationship with his wife, Jeanette, only he didn’t know it. As is often the case with abusive people, he blamed Jeanette for not “understanding” him. But today, as this couple speaks with me, Michael claims,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 23, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
I thought I’d tell you a bit about me and about where I can see *you* going…. I have a Ph.D. But what I am most proud of is my children and grandchildren. They all came out well! (and cute!) I’ve got four children; three are married with kids and...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 19, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
If you saw my Masterclass (https://drdeb.com/LoveYourselfLoveYourMarriage) then you know why reaching out to help people means so much to me, why I will probably still be doing this work when I’m 102. Now, the next question is: Can I help YOU? I help married...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 16, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“Those idiots,” Michael thought. “Can’t they see that they’re making a huge mistake?” Just then his boss, Jim, came in. “Michael, can you explain what, exactly, happened between you and the engineering team? Three people came...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 12, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“Of course I know that people aren’t supposed to lose it,” Tammy said defensively. “I’m not stupid. I didn’t just get born yesterday. I know how to act. In fact,” she went on with an air of superiority about her,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 9, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
When Shelly was three, she saw her mother smashing dishes in the kitchen and she became very frightened. She heard her father’s loud voice and she ran and hid in the back of her closet. She loved that closet. It was so large that there was plenty of room for a...
