When it comes to cars, I don’t care if I’m driving a Lexus, a Honda, or a Farari. I really wouldn’t. Yes, I notice the bumps in the road with the regular, run-of-the-mill car, but only for the first few minutes. Then my mind goes somewhere else and I’m not paying attention to the vehicle anymore. It gets me where I’m going and that’s all I care about.
You may feel different. You may like the idea of spending $86,000 on a 2019 Lexus LX. It would be money wasted on me. I wouldn’t notice the benefits after the first three minutes. (Reminds me of a date I had way back in the day. The young man who took me out was very proud of his car. He had this put in and that added. I wanted to be polite so I made polite comments about these things. The following week, we went out again and I was so proud of myself for remembering to comment on how special and fancy the car was….Except that his car was in the shop and he had borrowed his mother’s car for our date. Oooops.)
But my Life is different. My Life is not a car. My Life and every minute of it is the most precious thing I have. And with every minute that goes by, I’m losing some of it. So if there were some aspect of it that was killing me slowly every day, I’d want to fix that.
My very good friend had a husband who did not want to fix that. He complained of a stomach ache. She told him to see the doctor. He postponed it. Eventually, he was diagnosed with cancer and it was too late.
I don’t feel that way. And I expect you don’t either. You want to not only “address” the situation you’re in, but you want it addressed right.
You want to know that when the situation you’re in has been properly addressed, you will have all the tools you ever will need to understand yourself first and also love and cherish and value yourself. You’ll want to not only have the tools, but to be there already.
You’ll want to know how to express yourself so you’re heard. You want to be heard not only by your own heart but that of the person you love. You want to know how to say it so they care and you want to know, deeply, that they do care after all. You want to feel that.
And you’re not a selfish person. You also want to understand them. You want to meet their needs. You want to be there for them. You want to be their lover.
You don’t just want a set of tools. You want this to last forever….Walks in the mountains…smiles and sex in the morning…team players regarding the children….of one mind about the place of extended family….being best friends and having each other’s backs.
And you don’t want this to take ten years. Or five years. You are sick and tired and you want it to happen now. You feel entitled to that for all that you’ve suffered.
And the process should be painless. It should not involve any finger-pointing. You’re done with blame and criticism. You’re done with sitting in front of a therapist trying to get him to understand how you see it while your partner fights for that territory. Done!
You want it to be easy. With somebody who understands. Done!
And why shouldn’t it be? Aren’t there millions of children whose parents do understand them even if yours and mine didn’t? Isn’t it time we finally had it easy? Boom! Someone gets it. No fights. No disputes about who said what. No heat in the room. No room, either. You don’t have to sit in front of someone’s glaring eyes.
I’m that Other Someone. I’m here for you and I get you. There is not a shred of doubt about that in my mind. Or at least there won’t be once we speak.
And I get what you need. Maybe not what you thought you needed, but that’s not only okay, that’s great. Because I can help you that much more by giving you everything you need to make this work, even the “extras” that you hadn’t thought of. And I hold your hand across cyberspace making sure that it works. In a real short time.
Maybe this is a good moment to explain just what will happen on our Clarity Call. I do like to keep some structure to it so the time doesn’t run away from us and we end up not accomplishing anything. I will be asking a whole bunch of questions to get a handle on your relationship: what is not working, what you’ve tried, and what it would look like if it were working. Then I will make recommendations based on that.
As you know, I have a program that I developed which will give you everything you need to learn. But – and this is critical – it’s not meant to merely give you information. It’s meant to literally transform you. When you’ve finished, you won’t be the same person you are now!
You will, of course, keep the good parts of who you are; you’ll keep everything you want to keep, actually, but you will have finer, shinier tools, tools that work. And so you will accomplish what you want in your relationship with ease and finesse.
But you can’t just join the program. The phone call is meant for both of us to decide if this is for you. We might not be a fit. I only work with people who are 1000% committed to doing what it takes to realize their dreams of a good, happy, intimate marriage – a rock-solid marriage. Committed, coachable, and resourceful.
You will be judging me, too. And you should. You will be asking yourself: Did DrDeb shed light on my situation? Does she get me? Us? Does she have a solution that we want? These are your important questions.
See, this gets us back to the original question: Why is this a high ticket program?
You want results. You want someone who knows what they’re doing, has all the tools you need, and makes sure you use them every day. By the way, that’s accountability. And no one else has that. No one. Many programs give you tons of information. But can you apply it? Are you doing it right? Do you even know which information you need? What if there was something about you that you were unaware of?
I was just talking to a man who said to me on a call that he is “not needy.” Then he later told me that he asked one of his children if they missed him. I said to him that he is, indeed, needy and this is something I could help him with. He realized I was correct. That’s what I mean when I say that I can and most likely will give you tools that could help you that you weren’t even aware you needed. And I will keep an eye on how you are doing with putting them into practice.
In a nutshell, here is what you will get
- You will come to love, value, and stand up for yourself
- You will learn how to talk and listen
- You both will heal from the pain you’ve received
- You will start to connect as friends and partners – and finally, as lovers
These things will happen when you do the work because I will always be there for you. You will get your marriage back – only better than it ever was. You will get yourself back – better than you were, too. How do you put a price on that?
This is your Life. The most important, precious gift you have. It’s about reclaiming it. Don’t wait to reclaim it. Book a call. https://drdeb.com/book