playing victim

Playing Victim Is Emotional Abuse

by Deb Hirschhorn | Mar 18, 2013 | Verbal and Emotional Abuse

There are people who don’t allow the feeling of compassion in. That may seem amazing to you: If someone else said they are hurt, how can you not feel badly about it? The answer is that they come from worlds away where tears don’t stir emotions; they are hardened –...

How The Victim Thinker Thinks and Why He Will Never Be Happy

by Deb Hirschhorn | Sep 29, 2006 | Verbal and Emotional Abuse

What’s your reaction when someone tells you, “You hurt my feelings”? There could be two possible reactions: You’re going to be either me-focused or other-focused. That is, if you’re me-focused, you’re going to feel irritated, offended, angry, insulted or—this...

Don’t Play Victim in Your Marriage

by Deb Hirschhorn | Nov 13, 2002 | Verbal and Emotional Abuse

Don’t rush to get hurt feelings–Stay away from playing the victim in your relationship. Ask yourself one, two, three, four, even five times: Did she really mean to hurt me? Because if your spouse, lover, friend did not really mean it, you can choose not to...

Playing Victim Is Emotional Abuse

How The Victim Thinker Thinks and Why He Will Never Be Happy

Don’t Play Victim in Your Marriage

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