The story of Impatience-In-Therapy.
Like, he or she is hurting you by bringing up a sore topic. Or by not paying attention to you, not putting you first. Or by flirting too much. Or by spending too much.
Whatever it is, you’ve told them and told them and told them. And it DID NOT SINK IN. Or maybe you’re the one that got told this. And then she or he left. Boom! Done! Because they were
a. sick and tired of telling something that never got respected, never got listened to
b. in too much pain to wait around
c. unwilling to believe things could EVER change if they did not change already.
Except for the fact that *I* was not in the picture before.
This is so frustrating for me! I CAN help. I DO help. I’ve been doing this work for OMG a quarter of a century. Aaaaaak. That’s a very long time! So when I get into the equation, the equation is different. You come out with something else, a new substance, a new relationship, a new marriage. Actually, to be quite blunt about it: A new person.
Here’s an example. A couple decided to take my program. The husband was arrogant, name calling, interrupting, belittling. Man, what a difficult person to work with. But *I* was patient. I figured no one could possibly have been patient with this guy in his entire life so that’s why he is that way. Let me be the first one. I patiently reminded him of all the components in my program that would apply. Again and again. And then again.
And you know what? That guy is a different guy today. In a very, very short time – a few months – he is a listener, he is humble, he is appreciative, he is solution-focused, he doesn’t interrupt, he listens to advice and puts it to use. The man is a pleasure!
So I’m asking the Runners – the ones who gave up and ran away from the relationship – give me a chance to do what I do. God put everyone here with a gift. That’s mine. Let me use it.
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