by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 30, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships, Mental Health
“DrDeb, I had a happy childhood so there’s no need to waste time and money in therapy going back there!” That’s one thing I’ll hear quite a bit. Here’s another one: “My past was very painful. I don’t want to relive it, so no, I don’t want the kind of therapy that has...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 26, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
“DrDeb, I know what you’re going to tell me. You’re going to say I have to be nice, be good, and then my partner will react differently. Well, I’ve tried that, and it doesn’t work.” That’s why that’s not what I’m going to say, lol. If you’re nice and good you can get...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 25, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
This is how the quick-fix-er marriage gurus get you: They assure you that you can fix things in 8 weeks or 30 days or <gasp!> just 7 days. Well, of course you want things fixed. And it doesn’t work. Well, it works for some people. Here’s who it works for: People...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 24, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
Surprising as it may seem, most people don’t really know who they are at the core. Oh, they know their habits, like getting offended easily or being judgmental or not liking themselves. But that’s not who they are. This video explores 3 characteristics of...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 19, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
What if you had the ability to MINDREAD your partner? What would that be like? –You’d feel SAFE, wouldn’t you? Because you’d know – 1. why they had the affairs 2. what needs/hurts/trauma they were running away from 3. how sincere they are that they won’t do it...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 17, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
When you’ve been beaten down, you start to feel like maybe the mean things that your partner says must be true. They aren’t! Learn the power of how to be kind to yourself again along with the power of being present to your own protectors while hearing your...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 11, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
They don’t help with the kids They spend money you don’t have. They may be out doing even worse than that. And you’ve tried everything. You’ve talked, discussed, shared your feelings….. But nothing works. Why? Well, I’ll tell you why! In fact, the answer to why it’s...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 10, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
It’s hard to stand up to a bully. It takes courage. Courage to face yourself first! Then compassion for YOU! Tap into your inner resources that have long been neglected and you will take care of that bully easily. ...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 9, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
One person is an alcoholic. Another is a gambler. Another is abusive. Or, it could be as simple as someone raising their kids in a way you completely disagree with. Whatever it is, you hate it. You hate to see it. You hate to be exposed to it. And so you’ve told...
