by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 22, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Imagine the scene inside a therapy office:Therapist: So who wants to start off? Let me know why you’re here, okay? Sheila: We’re here because George has been pulling away from me for a long time.Therapist: How long?Sheila: At least five years. It’s...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 19, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
According to researchers – who’ve spent their entire careers studying romantic love and passion – it is possible! The researchers studied the brains of couples who were married at least 10 years. They completed all kinds of self-report tests, looked...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 15, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Here are 4 categories of people running away from themselves: People addicted to one thing or another – alcohol, drugs, gambling, porn, shopping, working exceptionally long hours, explosive anger/rages, lying, or cheating. Schizophrenics, Narcissists. Those who...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 12, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
He was beside himself. At four in the morning, Steve got a call from the police. His wife was out cold behind the steering wheel of her car which was that close to being completely wrapped around a tree. He could feel his breath come in short spurts. He was expecting...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 8, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Did you know that right now, it’s possible for you to completely turn around a bad marriage? I’ll explain how in just a second. But first, let’s talk about why so many people think this is impossible. The truth is that you’ve been let down. Let down by so many experts...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 5, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Have you ever been told that if you want real love and you’re in a dead marriage, the best thing to do is divorce? That there is no way under the sun that two people who no longer love each other can ever be happy again, let alone fall in love – with each...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 29, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
No. They’re not. They are regular people who did not learn. Are yu going to argue with me? Do you think they certainly were told but they didn’t want to listen? I will prove to you that that is not accurate. Come with me…. We’re going to take a...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 25, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Suppose a client walks into a therapist’s office every week for a month and each time, he has a spot on his shirt. He is down and out, looking for a job and can’t get one. Should the therapist: a. tell him flat out that he has spots on his clothes? b....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 22, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Coaching isn’t about feelings. That’s what I used to think. That is, until I put together my own coaching program. Which clearly focuses on feelings. How could it not? Feelings run the world! Politics is all about feelings. Love and marriage – of...
