by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 23, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
According to researchers – who’ve spent their entire careers studying romantic love and passion – it is possible! The researchers studied the brains of couples who were married at least 10 years. They completed all kinds of self-report tests, looked...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 19, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
I’m so scared. I feel like I just got thrown off a cliff. I’m in free-fall and I do not know if I will land at all or be crushed to death when I do. This is crazy. Topsy-turvy. OMG. Okay. I get it. Your world has turned upside down. Breathe. Can you listen...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 16, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
He was beside himself. At four in the morning, Steve got a call from the police. His wife was out cold behind the steering wheel of her car which was that close to being completely wrapped around a tree. He could feel his breath come in short spurts. He was expecting...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 12, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Did you know that right now, it’s possible for you to completely turn around a bad marriage? I’ll explain how in just a second. But first, let’s talk about why so many people think this is impossible. The truth is that you’ve been let down. Let down by so many experts...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 9, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Have you ever been told that if you want real love and you’re in a dead marriage, the best thing to do is divorce? That there is no way under the sun that two people who no longer love each other can ever be happy again, let alone fall in love – with each...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jun 30, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
I Look Abusers In The Eye I tell them what’s what. With love. Because they’re not inherently evil. We’re going to take a peek into little Randy’s house. Randy is four years old. His three-year-old sister just got a gift from a doting aunt. It...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jun 28, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Suppose a client walks into a therapist’s office every week for a month and each time, he has a spot on his shirt. He is down and out, looking for a job and can’t get one. Should the therapist: a. tell him flat out that he has spots on his clothes? b....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jun 25, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Coaching isn’t about feelings. That’s what I used to think. That is, until I put together my own coaching program. Which clearly focuses on feelings. How could it not? Feelings run the world! Politics is all about feelings. Love and marriage – of...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jun 21, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Sex is the Gold Standard of a well-oiled, functioning, happy, content marriage. Or it should be. And so, for that reason, everyone wants it. Of course. It feels wonderful when it feels wonderful. But when it doesn’t….. It’s two strangers trying to...
