by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 30, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
For 100 years, our culture has turned its nose up at feelings. As David Brooks (who used to be a political reporter for the NY Times) said, “One thing you’re not allowed to talk about in Washington is emotions.” But he changed to biology because he...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 23, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Everyone’s rushing around getting things done. Or escaping life by all sorts of unhealthy ways. Find out why mindfulness should NOT be dismissed as “Oh, I don’t have time for that” Or, “It’s not me.” Well, yeah, it’s not...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 16, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
“Something comes over me, I don’t know, and I see red when she asks me if I took care of bills/garbage/junior’s homework/whatever” “I was in a perfectly good mood, walking down the street and this song came on and I burst into...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 9, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Tonight’s Live will NOT be here in the Facebook group! I have some very exciting news, guys! We will have a very private group of invited-only people who may or may not be members of this group to meet with me on a Zoom webinar. Why? What are the advantages?...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 2, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
You are fuming. This is ridiculous. It is beyond your imagination what your so-called partner in life just did. Crazy. Really, really annoying. Awful, actually. And you wish this were the first time. But it isn’t. This is an ongoing problem. Your life is so...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 18, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
☪️ Now, you may be thinking, “who cares about feelings?” ☪️ Well research shows that feelings DRIVE us. We think we’re being rational, but actually we first decide what we want based on feelings and then we come up...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 11, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Sam and Sharon spent $755 for a marriage weekend run by a private and well-respected organization. They were nervous but pledged to themselves to be open and honest with each other. The weekend had some tears, some truths, and much emotion. They left with a set of...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 28, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
Ooooo how frustrating. You’ve tried everything. Everything. And nothing works. They will not come to the table. You know the one about bringing the horse to water but you can’t make it drink? Well, your horse doesn’t even come to the water....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 21, 2021 | Marriage and Relationships
At last you’re free! Free from arguments. Free from wondering where he/she is. Free from the cold shoulder. Free from the false accusations. Free from the sarcasm. Free from the neglect. Find out why that feeling of relief lasts less than a nanosecond and is...
