by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 7, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Okay, you are trying hard. Really. But your partner? Ugh. Forget them. They’re not trying at all. And what is your partner saying? They’re saying, “Well, you this and you that, so of course, I’m not [X, Y, Z].” See the picture?...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 31, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
If you’re new to this group, this Live is a MUST. It is the key to transforming everything. I know, I know. That sounds like pie in the sky. But it’s real. IFS (Internal Family Systems) revolutionizes relationships – starting with the one to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 24, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Okay, we all know that one-night stands aren’t exactly an emotionally intimate moment. But I’m saying even when the affair – physical or by text – is “purely” emotional, there’s still no intimacy. Now, I can hear...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 10, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
If you’ve never heard me speak about IFS and you have no clue what I’m talking about, you absolutely MUST tune into tonight’s webinar. Nearly by accident I stumbled on IFS. It started in the middle of the pandemic in 2020. I was going to be traveling...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 24, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
It’s really odd how many people confess to me of having had affairs – and they don’t even know why. It made them happy. Until it didn’t. And if their spouse was so terrible that they just had to get away with someone else, why do they go back,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 17, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
⚜️ People always think that the problems in their relationship is that “We can’t communicate.” Therefore, I used to spend many, many weeks, months in fact, teaching communication skills. And I couldn’t understand why they were...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 10, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
We’ve all been there. We were fine and suddenly a storm cloud passed over us and the good mood has been robbed, snatched away from us. Sometimes we want to strike out at the person we think “caused” it. Sometimes we blame ourselves. And other times,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 3, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Does your so-called communication feel like it’s filled with stuff that you are sick and tired of hearing . . . . . . . like . . . “I’m going out” — “But where are you going?” — “I don’t have to tell...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 20, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
I’m Not Going To Yell at You, and No One Ever Should If I had a nickel for every time someone wrote me a Messenger message telling me their spouse was “a Narcissist” I’d be rich! Except that this term is – can I pleeeese say a bad word...
