by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 17, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
John Gottman is a long-standing researcher of what makes marriages work – or more accurately, fail. I’m thinking it was about 40 years ago that he created the Love Lab at the University of Washington. He advertised for volunteer couples to spend a weekend...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 15, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
This is the second half of the very long post that is really, “Why Everyone on My Team Is YOUR Answer,” that I started on Monday. These are the rest of the Core Values of the Love Yourself Love Your Marriage program and ONLY people who are totally...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 11, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Let’s start with this: NEW TIME!! For today only, our live will be at 12:30 noon Eastern time and not at night at all. Remember that! Next week, I don’t know because I’ll be in a different time zone on vacation – but I will do your live! The...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 10, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Really, I want to say, “Why Everyone on My Team Is YOUR Answer,” but I also want to give people here room to raise doubts, question, and be cautious. I think caution is the exact correct thing given what so many people here have been through. On the other...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 4, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
They refuse to go. They’re “not interested.” They “don’t need it.” “Nothing is wrong.” “You’re the problem.” Grrrr. Frustrating, right? Tonight, you’re going to learn the secret sauce to get...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Aug 3, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
You know that old saying that you can’t change someone; they have to want to change? I disagree with it. Why? Because experience does change us. And we can create experiences that are effective in making changes. Here’s an example from my own...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 28, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
“Yes, DrDeb, you’re very nice. I believe that you’re sincere when you say that you believe your program works. And works for everybody. But I don’t think, frankly, it will work for ME.” –Well, I get that. It’s normal to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 27, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
“DrDeb,” Kenny was complaining, “it’s only my wife that triggers me! I have lots of relationships – from work to my religious community to my kids’ schools where I’m very active – and I get along well with everyone...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jul 21, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Of course it can work. Marriage counseling is a dismal failure. But not if it’s done right. Learn the one problem that causes people to stop before they got half way through the race. Learn the one antidote to it. Find out the exact steps to get the marriage to...
