Hey Spouse, It hurts for your partner to no longer believe in you. It steals your possibilities away, right? Basically, it says that you are a robot that cannot escape your programming. As if you didn't have free choice. So why did they convince themselves in the...

This guy was pretty unhappy. He said he didn't want to think about the possibility that his wife would end the marriage. He spoke with great pain about that fight they had in which the horrible "D" word was uttered. As we were going through the call and I was trying...

When it comes to cars, I don't care if I'm driving a Lexus, a Honda, or a Farari. I really wouldn't. Yes, I notice the bumps in the road with the regular, run-of-the-mill car, but only for the first few minutes. Then my mind goes somewhere else and I'm not paying...

Suzie was crying as she related to me all her attempts to convince her therapist that she was not ready for divorce. Lazy therapist: But he is a cheater. How will you ever trust him again? Suzie: I get it. I don't know. That's what you're for. To help me with that!...

As I look at all the people I've worked with over time and the people that I'm currently helping across rocky terrain, one thing becomes clear to me: Our society dismisses emotions. It's normal to dismiss something you don't understand. Not too helpful and certainly...

Here are 4 categories of people running away from themselves: People addicted to one thing or another - alcohol, drugs, gambling, porn, shopping, working exceptionally long hours, explosive anger/rages, lying, or cheating. Schizophrenics, Narcissists. Those who are...

Did you ever hear the story of the two frogs? One was thrown into a pot of boiling water and he jumped out very quickly - and was saved. The other frog was put in an empty pot. Shortly, some nice, cool, refreshing water was being filled up in the pot and the frog was...

Imagine the scene inside a therapy office: Therapist: So who wants to start off? Let me know why you're here, okay? Sheila: We're here because George has been pulling away from me for a long time. Therapist: How long? Sheila: At least five years. It's been a nightmare...

According to researchers - who've spent their entire careers studying romantic love and passion - it is possible! The researchers studied the brains of couples who were married at least 10 years. They completed all kinds of self-report tests, looked at pictures of...

I'm so scared. I feel like I just got thrown off a cliff. I'm in free-fall and I do not know if I will land at all or be crushed to death when I do. This is crazy. Topsy-turvy. OMG. Okay. I get it. Your world has turned upside down. Breathe. Can you listen to me for a...