Regarding any client I’ve ever had, I can say with assurance that no matter how “bad” someone told me they were - they weren’t. Not only that I didn’t find them “bad,” somehow, the person who told me they were bad “miraculously” had a positive new feeling about them...

Finally, I've got Marriage Situation #18 up! It's a JOINT Therapy Session that you can peek into! ...What does a good therapist do when a client calls himself an idiot? This is a conjoint session with Larry & Cheryl. Find out how to turn something bad like that...

You are more powerful than you realize. You feel defeated because you’ve been tryin so very long. And nothing has worked. But that’s exactly why what I’m going to teach you in tonight’s live WILL work. If you add up everything you’ve tried, you’ll realize that there...

That weird feeling you get – maybe it’s in the pit of your stomach, or maybe it’s like a choking in your throat, or a suffocating feeling like you can’t breathe – but it’s a feeling that something just went wrong. Really wrong. Yet, you can’t pinpoint it. You try....

With all the therapy that Cheryl has already had, you would think that the rejection of her pot luck offers would be no big deal, but that was not the case. Why? Why is it that small things turn into big things? And most important, how do we stop doing that to...

"What? You’re saying because I’m anxious, I’m abusive?” “Are you kidding?” Cindy asked me, curling a tissue in her hand. “You’re blaming me for being anxious when my kids are terrible?” Of course, I didn’t actually say anything. These are just the thoughts going...

I'm now releasing #16 of the Marriage Situations Playlist, Perfectionism's Fatal Attraction. See, you thought, maybe, that being a perfectionist is tough because you have to be perfect? Nah, that's not at all the worst part. Watch the video to understand the real...

No, it’s not “Tell them” – because they don’t listen. And no, it’s not “Divorce them” because guess what? – if you’re divorced they sure as heck won’t be meeting your needs. AND research shows that even if you re-marry, you will still feel resentful of the first...

Cheryl's fear of abandonment may be keeping her in an abusive marriage unless she can learn how to tell if he is really changing or just putting on a good show. Find out the specifics she learns in order to know....

Someone in my Facebook group asked, “How come people will say they have no issues and their childhood was great, yet they create marital problems that do not exist?” Ha! Funny, right? That is classic denial. Of COURSE they had a problemmatic childhood. No, it was not...