by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 28, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Why do you fight? Parts. Why do you go numb? Parts. Why do you want to escape? Parts. There are parts of you that do not do or want to do what is in your best interest. They mean well, don’t get me wrong. All our parts have good intentions. BUT. . . And this is...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 14, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Can you guess how many people have messaged me that their partner thinks “I don’t need to change”? Well, they’re right. They don’t. And neither to you. And neither does anyone. See, they didn’t realize that. They got defensive...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Apr 7, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Okay, you are trying hard. Really. But your partner? Ugh. Forget them. They’re not trying at all. And what is your partner saying? They’re saying, “Well, you this and you that, so of course, I’m not [X, Y, Z].” See the picture?...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 31, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
If you’re new to this group, this Live is a MUST. It is the key to transforming everything. I know, I know. That sounds like pie in the sky. But it’s real. IFS (Internal Family Systems) revolutionizes relationships – starting with the one to...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 24, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
Okay, we all know that one-night stands aren’t exactly an emotionally intimate moment. But I’m saying even when the affair – physical or by text – is “purely” emotional, there’s still no intimacy. Now, I can hear...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Mar 10, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
If you’ve never heard me speak about IFS and you have no clue what I’m talking about, you absolutely MUST tune into tonight’s webinar. Nearly by accident I stumbled on IFS. It started in the middle of the pandemic in 2020. I was going to be traveling...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 24, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
It’s really odd how many people confess to me of having had affairs – and they don’t even know why. It made them happy. Until it didn’t. And if their spouse was so terrible that they just had to get away with someone else, why do they go back,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 17, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
⚜️ People always think that the problems in their relationship is that “We can’t communicate.” Therefore, I used to spend many, many weeks, months in fact, teaching communication skills. And I couldn’t understand why they were...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Feb 10, 2022 | Marriage and Relationships
We’ve all been there. We were fine and suddenly a storm cloud passed over us and the good mood has been robbed, snatched away from us. Sometimes we want to strike out at the person we think “caused” it. Sometimes we blame ourselves. And other times,...
