Regarding any client I’ve ever had, I can say with assurance that no matter how “bad” someone told me they were – they weren’t.
Not only that I didn’t find them “bad,” somehow, the person who told me they were bad “miraculously” had a positive new feeling about them by the end of therapy.
Well, now that I think about it, there were one or two exceptions. And you know what? The reason they were exceptions was because I didn’t get to really, deeply, know them.
Maybe they didn’t want me to.
Could be.
But the result points a finger to me, not them. Because had I persisted in the relationship with the attitude of wanting to know the truth about who they were,
they would have eventually let me in.
The ones that are tough eventually do.
So why am I telling you this?
Because I’m going to let you in on my secrets for opening up the most difficult, “bad” people. The one you don’t want to be around.
The one you’re married to. Find out in my LIVE Thursday May 23, at 9 PM Eastern Time