Couples therapists never learned to separate a couple in order to help them be together.
In fact, where I was trained, that was a no-no. “What’s the point of calling it “couples” therapy, if the couple is going to be separated?” – is what they’d be thinking if they knew.
And barely any individual therapists have training in how to do couples therapy.
But the reality is that when a couple just sits and argues in front of the therapist, worse than nothing comes out of it.
It does damage.
Big time.
And worse – it makes the couple feel like giving up the whole thing.
That’s depressing. AND to make matters worse, when someone comes along who CAN help them, they don’t believe it.
“Oh, I’ve tried couples counseling before. No, thanks!”
There is ONE basic reason why even seasoned couples therapists make this mistake. One.
And I’m going to share it with you on my Live tonight.
But there’s more.
If a couple decides to split up and go to individual therapists, they may or may not heal and grow. It can go either way.
But here is what they DON’T learn: How to be together.
They don’t learn why and how they trigger each other when there is NO ONE else on Earth that sends them flying like that.
Of course, because individual therapists have the mistaken theory that one therapist should not talk to both people.
So wrong.
Find out why tonight and how couples SHOULD be treated instead.
And why I am almost the only one doing it, who else is, and what else you need to make it perfect.
Yes, perfect.
Join me tonight at 9 PM Eastern time in our group. https://facebook.com/groups/LoveYourselfLoveYourMarriage
And if you can’t make it, then just type “replay” below and I’ll send you the link!
When you apply to join the group when you fill out the information form also write “replay” so I can PM you the replay link.