It is SOOO frustrating.
There you are, helpless, while you watch someone you love and care about go down the rathole.
And there is nothing, absolutely nothing, you can do.
Or at least, that is what you were thinking. But there is actually one thing.
We’re talking about a fancy word called “limerence” which was coined in 1979 by a psychologist and it simply means obsessive infatuation.
I prefer to focus not so much on the feeling – the obsessive infatuation – but the origin of it. Why is there an obsessive infatuation for someone you barely know?
It doesn’t make sense, does it?
At least, not until you understand the neediness underneath it and where that comes from.
THEN you’re in a position to do something about it.
Find out Thursday night!
9 PM Eastern Time, I’m going to be giving a full explanation of why it exists, 5 tests, and 4 things YOU can do to help.
Join me Live on youtube. Pleeeeeze be there and comment in the chat.
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