by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 10, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
What, DrDeb? People who cheat are scared? Are you kidding? It takes guts to cheat! Cheating means going after what you want! Nice rationalizing, friend! Actually, you’ll hear the opposite in our Live Thursday at 1 PM Eastern time. You’ll find out what really takes...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 9, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Please watch my newest installment of the Marriage Situations playlist. It is called, What’s Emotional Healing Anyway? – Cheryl Is Tested (Situation #6) Cheryl’s fear of abandonment has kept her in an abusive marriage. But she learns to comfort her...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 8, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships, Mental Health
“Huh, DrDeb?” some readers must be thinking. And then probably other readers are thinking, “Yessss! Told ya my anger is good!” See, your anger – whether you love having it or hate it – is part of you. We’re all born with it. Think of that red-faced newborn, screaming....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 4, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Jackie was silent for some time. The therapist had been gently looking to find out how she felt about herself. But the words choked in the back of Jackie’s throat. All she felt was hot, burning shame. Would she ever feel human again? The short answer is “Yes.” Find...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 3, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships, Mental Health
My “Love Yourself Love Your Marriage Individual Learning + Group Coaching” offer is for couples who want to stay married but who have been struggling with communication breakdowns, disconnect, or discord. They have tried weekend programs and/or marriage counseling and...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Jan 2, 2024 | Marriage and Relationships
Understanding the person who doesn’t meet our needs is the most important part of self care! That is how to get those very needs met. In this video, we dig deeper into why Larry is not making progress and why that is okay – for now....
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 28, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
One way to feel is, “My God, if the governments of this world can’t figure it out, how are we individuals supposed to?” But I’m proposing the opposite: “Because the governments are made up of us, the people, then the solutions have to start with us.” And what has this...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 27, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
“Well, what do you want, Monica?” the therapist patiently asked his new client. Monica was baffled. She didn’t even know. Years of being beaten down, first by a parent who always knew better than anybody else, and then by a husband who shared some of those...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Dec 26, 2023 | Marriage and Relationships
The 4th “situation” of the playlist “Marriage Situations” was just put up. In it, Larry has ruined an important business relationship. When he’s calm, he can see what went wrong. But why didn’t he see it at the time? Why did he have to explode?...
