by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 10, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
I myself used to subscribe to the myth that it requires two people to make a marriage work. After all, I was a marriage counselor. How do you do marriage counseling with only one person?? That was until, we’ll call him Joey, came to see me, insisting that his...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Nov 3, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
There was this guy who would not look at me. He sat in our session with his arms crossed, looking elsewhere. He admitted he was “irritated.” His wife was sitting there in tears, and through her tears, she said, “This is what it’s like for me!...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 30, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
Did you know that right now, it’s possible for you to fall in love — with each other — again? I’ll explain how in just a second. But first, let’s talk about why so many people think this is impossible. The truth is that you’ve been LET DOWN. Let down by so...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 27, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
The prevailing wisdom is that if someone is a narcissist, they cannot change so you have to leave them. And you have total proof because your narcissist did not change. You ranted. You raved. You ignored. You threatened. You’re sorry to say you even had an...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 20, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
I’ve heard the story too many times of people who go to therapy to fix a problem and they walk out with a bigger one. The therapist wants to hear what’s going on so the couple obliges by starting a fight! Right there in front of the therapist. The...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 16, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
Peter was miserable and didn’t know why. He decided it was his wife’s, Elizabeth’s, fault. After all, she was his wife; she was supposed to love him, and since he was miserable, she must have let him down in some way. He didn’t know what way,...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 13, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
Should I Listen To The Advice Everyone’s Giving Me To Leave My Abusive Spouse? You don’t know what to do. It’s happened again. You’ve gotten yelled at. Made fun of. Put down. Name-called. Gotten eyeballs rolled. Threatened. Even a little of...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 6, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
I once was interning to acquire the number of hours necessary for my license. I met with a particular family. They were really lovely people. Okay, they would fight. Okay, they didn’t seem to know how to get out of the spiral they were in. I get that. Not...
by DrDeb Hirschhorn | Oct 2, 2020 | Marriage and Relationships
How To Overcome Abuse, Cheating, and Neglect I would like to share with you a compliment I got recently. I never know what people are thinking until you tell me, and I was very touched by this compliment. I asked this individual why they reached out to me and they...
