“Boy, your last post must have been about me,” someone said. “For me, as soon as we’re in an argument, it’s all about winning at any cost. I can be sarcastic, do the put-downs, yell, whatever it takes to win. And you know what? I don’t want to be that person any more. What can I do?”
I assured this individual that I’ve met so many, many people with this same complaint that I could not possibly have had just one of them in mind.